• Choose one focal piece. Earrings suit most walima necklines; a fine necklace suits an open or plain neckline.
• Pearls are particularly good at a walima. They soften a formal outfit and sit well with pastels.
• Clear cubic zirconia comes alive under evening hall lighting. A pair of well-cut drop earrings does more than a heavy set.
• Keep bangles slim and few, or swap them for a single bracelet.
• If you wore statement earrings to the baraat, bring them back with a different outfit rather than buying new ones.

Avoiding a repeat of the baraat look

The same guests usually attend both functions and appear in both sets of photographs. You do not need new jewellery for the walima, only a different arrangement. Move the lead from neck to ears or the other way round, switch from stacked bangles to one bracelet, or change metal tone to suit a lighter outfit. There is more on building a small set that covers the whole season separately.

For men: accessories by outfit

The walima is the one function where men’s accessories are actually seen, largely because many men wear suits. The rules are simple.

• Match your ring, watch and cufflinks in one tone — all steel, all black or all gold-tone.
• Keep to one ring. A walima is not the place for a stack.
• Many men avoid gold at weddings for religious reasons, and steel, silver or black finishes suit a suit perfectly well.
• If you are the groom’s brother or close family, a slightly dressier watch is the easiest upgrade.

Zayr’s men’s rings, chains and bracelets are 316L stainless steel, with PVD finishes on the gold and black tones, so they hold their colour through a long evening and a hot hall. Zayr does not sell real gold for men or women.

Practical notes for an evening function

1. 1Winter walimas mean shawls. Prong-set rings and hook earrings snag wool and pashmina, so choose bezel settings or studs.
2. 2Walimas often end late and involve a drive home. Put rings and earrings in a pouch before you fall asleep in the car.
3. 3Check clasps before leaving. Hall carpets swallow earring backs.
4. 4Perfume and attar go on first and must dry before jewellery goes on.
5. 5If you are travelling to another city for the wedding, pack each piece separately.

At the baraat, guests dress for the celebration. At the walima, they dress for the evening. The jewellery should know the difference.

• Choose one focal piece. Earrings suit most walima necklines; a fine necklace suits an open or plain neckline.
• Pearls are particularly good at a walima. They soften a formal outfit and sit well with pastels.
• Clear cubic zirconia comes alive under evening hall lighting. A pair of well-cut drop earrings does more than a heavy set.
• Keep bangles slim and few, or swap them for a single bracelet.
• If you wore statement earrings to the baraat, bring them back with a different outfit rather than buying new ones.

Avoiding a repeat of the baraat look

The same guests usually attend both functions and appear in both sets of photographs. You do not need new jewellery for the walima, only a different arrangement. Move the lead from neck to ears or the other way round, switch from stacked bangles to one bracelet, or change metal tone to suit a lighter outfit. There is more on building a small set that covers the whole season separately.

For men: accessories by outfit

The walima is the one function where men’s accessories are actually seen, largely because many men wear suits. The rules are simple.

• Match your ring, watch and cufflinks in one tone — all steel, all black or all gold-tone.
• Keep to one ring. A walima is not the place for a stack.
• Many men avoid gold at weddings for religious reasons, and steel, silver or black finishes suit a suit perfectly well.
• If you are the groom’s brother or close family, a slightly dressier watch is the easiest upgrade.

Zayr’s men’s rings, chains and bracelets are 316L stainless steel, with PVD finishes on the gold and black tones, so they hold their colour through a long evening and a hot hall. Zayr does not sell real gold for men or women.

Practical notes for an evening function

1. 1Winter walimas mean shawls. Prong-set rings and hook earrings snag wool and pashmina, so choose bezel settings or studs.
2. 2Walimas often end late and involve a drive home. Put rings and earrings in a pouch before you fall asleep in the car.
3. 3Check clasps before leaving. Hall carpets swallow earring backs.
4. 4Perfume and attar go on first and must dry before jewellery goes on.
5. 5If you are travelling to another city for the wedding, pack each piece separately.

At the baraat, guests dress for the celebration. At the walima, they dress for the evening. The jewellery should know the difference.